Advisors

Now therefore arise, go out and speak kindly to your servants, for I swear by the Lord, if you do not go, not a man will stay with you this night, and this will be worse for you than all the evil that has come upon you from your youth until now." Then the king arose and took his seat in the gate. And the people were all told, "Behold, the king is sitting in the gate." And all the people came before the king.
2 Samuel 19:7-8 (ESV)

We all need these kinds of friends. We need friends who see that we are struggling or even incapable of making the right decision and who will talk the truth to us to help us. Sadly, many have limited their friendships to only those who agree with them or think like them. The advice from those who desire to benefit from their association with you is worthless.

David often benefited from advisors who challenged his thought process. They were not just critical, for that is destructive, but they were constructively critical, which is vital.
Critics only critique and destroy—those who construct rebuild.





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